How to Be Good A Boyfriend – The One She Always Dreamt Of

There is no one definition of good first of all and when it comes to understanding a lady’s definition of good it’s nearly impossible to come up with one. (How to Be Good A Boyfriend?)

Being a good boyfriend is all related to how deeply you can understand the lady you are hanging around with. If you are able to do that and take small-small efforts in doing that, she will probably be drooling for you. 

Here we suggest some ways through which you can win her heart and become a good boyfriend of hers. 

1. You’re Empathetic

Sometimes your girlfriend will hit rough patches in your own life. Or there will be tension with the relationship that calls for a sudden solution. Empathy is a vital thing for good relationships. 

Being empathetic doesn’t always mean you have to fix everything. It’s better to say “I’m so sorry that’s happening to you.” or “That must be hard for you.” 

By listening actively, keeping yourself in your girlfriend’s shoes, and expressing genuine care and concern will definitely make you a good boyfriend. 

2. Communicate Constructively

Having an honest flow of communication can do magic! While your girlfriend is talking about something that ridiculously boring to you, don’t express disinterest. Rather listen to her and ask some questions and divert the flow of talks. 

Also, there will be times when you and your girl both will be banging heads against the wall. Don’t lose patience and temper. Rather let the atmosphere cool down and then sit and do some real talks. 

3. Be Kind

It’s a myth that men are better being rough and tuff. Being masculine is one thing and having kindness is another. Kindness is a trait that not only helps you in being a better person, but it helps your girlfriend to hang around with you more often. 

“Kindness makes you the most beautiful person in the world no matter what you look like.”

“Kindness is a language that the deaf can hear and the blind can see.”

“People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did. But people will never forget how you made them feel.” – Maya Angelou

During the times when beard and mustache is the sign of being a man. Kindness, staying humble, and caring is the new sexy. 

4. Have Faith in Her

There will be times when doubts will overshadow your trust towards her. But don’t let it be the reason for breaking up with the one you love. Ladies take some time to open up but once they do, they stay loyal no matter what happens. 

If she’s hiding something, don’t push her to speak then and there. Rather give her some time and she will come back when she feels the time is right for the bubble to plop. 

5. Do Things To Achieve Relationship Goals

It’s not all about having a foreign trip or gifting the most expensive ring in the town. Sometimes its also about 2:AM dates, 5:AM tea/coffee. Sometimes it’s about staying awake all night without having sex and talking anything that comes to mind. 

Do small-small things that later turn into relationship goals when you guys sit and sum-up the love life you guys had together. 

6. You’re Funny & You Let Her Be Funny Too

Behaving sophisticated is old-fashioned. Rather be yourself! And let your girl be like the one you met on the very day. 

A lot of videos are rolling out on the internet about couples playing a prank with each other. This is nothing but a big step taken towards a stronger relationship and making good memories. 

While you take normal selfies, don’t also forget to take photos with all those weird faces that she can only make when no one is around. 

7. You’re Good In Bed

It’s a fact that ladies last longer at bed as compared to men. Don’t rush and speed things up. Rather be gentle and let every second tickle her intentions. 

Every woman desires to be loved on the ground as well as off the ground. 

8. Be Truthful & Loyal

It’s another trait that helps you to become a good human overall. If you’re truthful with yourself, then you definitely are a loyal person. 

A woman craves loyalty and a truthful man. She can hide his 100 flaws if she senses that her man is loyal, humble, and truthful for her. So make sure you are one! 

“A true lady doesn’t demand, she thanks & true man doesn’t promise, he commits.”

“A woman never forgets how a man treated her during the times she needed his support the most.”

“Physical attractions are common, but a real mental connection is rare. If you find it, hold onto it.”

Summing Up:

Before you set out on a journey in being a good boyfriend, figure out what your girlfriend wants you to be. Then try and be a better person overall, this will eventually make you a good boyfriend for her… perhaps the best one for her!

 

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